The following pages are personal contemplations

The instinctive reptile and primitive mammal brain fighting for survival and reproduction in combination with emotions and a rational logic contemplating life and emotions can be most confusing.

Too much we do not know or are uncertain about makes most humans trying to find comfort in an almighty good power or good God taking care of humanity. It is very easy to firmly reject any religion since such power creating all, should also NOT create or allow for such horrible suffering. Simply, the weather destroys food from the poorest hungry and innocent, as likewise diseases kills millions of innocent babies, wars are fought in the name of religions. Religion leaders have been to greatest and worst warmongers, blocked liberal social development and healthcare and tolerated the most shameful conduct of their employees.

Promoting empirically skeptics from Nassim Nicolas Taleb, evolutionary scientists Charles Darwin and Richard Dawkins are giving all the comfort needed which is paradoxical since their books confirm and proof that unpredictability is humans most discomforting aspects of life.

Religion

If you happily enjoy a religion or other similar improvable fiction without any desire to trust science with its proven facts about the universe with its chemistry, earths geology, nature, and evolution, then respectfully read no further and enjoy your illusions, thereby please allowing others and your children to be an agnostic or atheists if they choose to be one. If the fears that come with not knowing can be resolved by your religion and make you a good human for society, then that is good and to be respected.

However, religions are the result of misappropriation of some good social, moral and healthy ideas, by parasitic fortune seekers, to obtain and sustain population control and fortune. Many religion wars, suppression, exploitation, and all kind of misconduct were utilized with millions upon millions of deaths, terrible misery and suffering as a byproduct.

All religions are based on public lack of empiric skepticism combined with ignorance. An example is Buddhism where the monks plaster their temples with gold. Hearsay has it that Buddha gave away gold and wealth to live an anti-materialistic so he would despise all the gold on the statues and temples.

Until today religion is the cause of hate, wars and suppression with severe misconduct by its preachers. As from Socrates, there has never been found one single letter or syllable from Jesus, Buddha, Mohammed, so all their teaching is continuous manipulated hearsay.

Religion super rich money sucking organizations deeply invested in capitalistic industry, all capitalizing the angst and suffering of the scared and ignorant.

The alliance between concealed governors and religions with politicians, control the might and power of laws, rules and regulations in their favor and benefit. Even modern slavery ethics and moral behavior is thereby encapsulated as social norms to control the masses. The irony and absolute scam are that THEY can ignore these laws and regulation and there by even escape most tax payments. Class justice comes in play at the rare occasion they cannot avoid a conflict. Super extravagant consumption and spending is their uninterrupted privilege.

Most violent for society is the enormous controlling power they have over information through their companies, TV stations, newspapers, and using political lobbyists, pressure groups, and even journalists. The famous large internet companies suck all our personal data and using personal compiled algorithms to analyses our behavior and desires following which they sell this or provide this free to the world government agencies. Fake news and outright uncovered lies are presented as the(ir) truth thereby falsifying and misleading the life of the masses, all for their benefit.

Fake news and outright proven lies are presented as the(ir) truth thereby falsifying and misleading the life of the masses. It’s crazy how conditioned the masses have become.

And if through whistleblowers like Edward Snowden, Julian Assange and Bradley Manning the bad and ugly truth is published lifelong prison sentences are being pursuit. This instead of the long overdue justified award of a Nobel peace prize, Pulitzer or other journalistically prize or honorees.

Masses being daily brainwashed and manipulated until being senseless and silly. But that is not enough because there is more profit to be gained and this time through our fabricated food and beverages loaded with sugars, saturated fats, chemicals and hormones in our meats. Obesity, higher blood pressure, inflammation, diabetes, and fatty liver disease, cancers and mental diseases are our reward. Now forced to surrender to corrupted medical care and pharmacy the end station is in sight making a natural dead rare in the years to come when our polluted corpses will join the other environmental poisons in the earth, air and water of this planet.

In some four and a half billion years’ time or so, this milky way galaxy will collide with Andromeda galaxy but way long before that the human race already has ceased to exist. It does not really matter if this is trough wars, virus, hunger, pollution or something with the same result.

It is not to be expected that the many well-known global solutions are implemented to ensure extension of the human race presence on this planet. Ridicule’s habitation expectations on another planet are just as illusionary as looking for contact or arrival of extraterrestrial life or extraterrestrial intelligence.

Meanwhile, paradoxical, even being mostly anti material, you need to fit in a society to survive since you need some form of 3^rd party help or support.

You can never win so use the same rulers key to freedom with capitalistic means and be rich enough or self-sustainable to be really free.

The Brain

Fossils proof that the human race is between 600 and 200 million years old. During this period there were three main human brain developments:

1. The basic brainstem / reptilian brain with instincts to survive and search or kill for food and reproduction of its species. Meanwhile its medulla oblongata part controlling vital processes like your heartbeat, breathing and blood pressure.
2. Following the cerebellum / mammal brain developed, which is between 200 and 10 million years old, now also facilitating feeling, emotions to support living in small tribes with authority leaders, with perhaps between up to 100 to 150 tribe members. During this period nonverbal communication or body language was created as part of our DNA past down by our ancestors, still used today unconscious as with baby’s instincts and reflexes with a smile or frown, grabbing, sneeze, yawn, burp, and gurgle
3. Not even 0,2 million years of the hundreds of million, comparative only a relative very small years humans finally have the cerebrum allowing for our spoken language.

Searching for the Real Good

Humans understand life and living through words and language which may result in the ability to reason, plan, solve problems, think abstractly, comprehend complex ideas, and learn from experience. But how to understand this provoking poem?

The Wheel by William Butler Yeats

Through winter-time we call on spring,
And through the spring on summer call,
And when abounding hedges ring
Declare that winter's best of all;
And after that there’s nothing good
Because the spring-time has not come-
Nor know that what disturbs our blood
Is but its longing for the tomb

On 27 July 1656, at the age of twenty-three, Spinoza was banned by the Sephardic community of Amsterdam. In the translated first few pages of his unfinished book TRACTATUS DE INTELLECTUS EMENDATIONE (ON THE IMPROVEMENT OF THE UNDERSTANDING), Spinoza (born November 24, 1632, died in Holland February 22, 1677, contemplates at age 25 most personal and beautiful the direction and future objectives of his life. Something all of us may have done but not often so radical and consequentially.

This resulted in rejected pursuing obtaining fame riches and sensual pleasure being replaced by three rules for life.

“AFTER experience had taught me that all the usual surroundings of social life are vain and futile; seeing that none of the objects of my fears contained in themselves anything either good or bad, except in so far as the mind is affected by them, I finally resolved to inquire whether there might be some real good having power to communicate itself, which would affect the mind singly, to the exclusion of all else: whether, in fact, there might be anything of which the discovery and attainment would enable me to enjoy continuous, supreme, and unending happiness.

I say “I finally resolved,” for at first sight it seemed unwise willingly to lose hold on what was sure for the sake of something then uncertain. I could see the benefits which are acquired through fame and riches, and that I should be obliged to abandon the quest of such objects, if I seriously devoted myself to the search for something different and new. I perceived that if true happiness chanced to be placed in the former I should necessarily miss it; while if, on the other hand, it were not so placed, and I gave them my whole attention, I should equally fail.

I therefore debated whether it would not be possible to arrive at the new principle, or at any rate at a certainty concerning its existence, without changing the conduct and usual plan of my life; with this end in view I made many efforts, but in vain. For the ordinary surroundings of life which are esteemed by men (as their actions testify) to be the highest good, may be classed under the three heads — Riches, Fame, and the Pleasures of Sense: with these three the mind is so absorbed that it has little power to reflect on any different good.

By sensual pleasure the mind is enthralled to the extent of quiescence, as if the supreme good were actually attained, so that it is quite incapable of thinking of any other object; when such pleasure has been gratified it is followed by extreme melancholy, whereby the mind, though not enthralled, is disturbed and dulled.

The pursuit of honors and riches is likewise very absorbing, especially if such objects be sought simply for their own sake, inasmuch as they are then supposed to constitute the highest good. In the case of fame the mind is still more absorbed, for fame is conceived as always good for its own sake, and as the ultimate end to which all actions are directed. Further, the attainment of riches and fame is not followed as in the case of sensual pleasures by repentance, but, the more we acquire, the greater is our delight, and, consequently, the more are we incited to increase both the one and the other; on the other hand, if our hopes happen to be frustrated we are plunged into the deepest sadness.

Fame has the further drawback that it compels its votaries to order their lives according to the opinions of their fellow-men, shunning what they usually shun, and seeking what they usually seek.

Yet, as it is necessary that while we are endeavouring to attain our purpose, and bring the understanding into the right path, we should carry on our life, we are compelled first of all to lay down certain rules of life as provisionally good, to wit the following:

I.           To speak in a manner intelligible to the multitude, and to comply with every general custom that does not hinder the attainment of our purpose. For we can gain from the multitude no small advantages, provided that we strive to accommodate ourselves to its understanding as far as possible: moreover, we shall in this way gain a friendly audience for the reception of the truth.

II.          II. To indulge ourselves with pleasures only in so far as they are necessary for preserving health.

III.        III. Lastly, to endeavour to obtain only sufficient money or other commodities to enable us to preserve our life and health, and to follow such general customs as are consistent with our purpose.”

Spinoza in his book ON TRUTH, RELIGION, AND SALVATION wrote the only objective for being alive is: “bene agere et laetari” – do good and be happy.

Science

Why then science as a logical basis for life: Spinoza asserts that “Science has one destiny, to which all its branches are striving — namely, the highest perfecting of humanity. Those who deny that men can attain virtue and truth deprive themselves of these, by this very denial.”

 

So that is why science. Science discovered the chemistry of biochemistry on planet earth. After billions of evolutional years from the one cell bacteria to approximately 37 trillion cells in creatures like humans. Cell and DNA proven science conform that just six chemical elements being carbon, hydrogen, nitrogen, oxygen, calcium and phosphorus make up almost 99% of the mass of living cells, including those in the human body, humans require smaller amounts of possibly 18 more.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metabolism Chemistry of metabolism is the set of life-sustaining chemical reactions in organisms that keeps humans alive. All of the thousands of chemical reactions taking place in our bodies require water. This is because in order to react, the chemicals must be in a watery solution. Water participates directly in many of the important reactions taking place in the body. In most damaging conflict with their essential needs, like the air and soil, it is water that humans are most forcefully and successfully are polluting and thus humans themselves.

Genes

The entire origin of the human race is an immeasurably incredible coincidence after an equally even smaller chance of the origin of biological life and subsequent billion-year evolution on this planet. This said and written by most scientists today and many most acknowledges and respected in our brief history.

Life and its origin has been most splendidly explained and even auditable by atheist champion Richard Dawkins is a British evolutionary biologist and author with some 18 books such as “The Selfish Gene, The Blind Watchmaker, The Ancestor's Tale, The God Delusion, The Oxford Book of Modern Science Writing. There are many YouTubes, and audio books spoken by himself which are a pleasure to see or listen to.

Charles Darwin (was an English naturalist, geologist, and biologist, widely known for his contributions to evolutionary biology) and his trade brother Alfred Russel Wallace (was an English naturalist, explorer, geographer, anthropologist, biologist and illustrator).

Evolution never did not have any interests or concerns of human beings in mind other than the survival of the fittest, all encapsulated in genes in their relevant environment.

More so this planet and the entire universe does not even care less about nature,

In human wording, there is nothing more destructive as the universe followed by nature with its murdering survival fight of the fittest.

Emotional loaded words are for human such as disaster, calamity, accident, emergency, pain, sad, love, false and true, care is senseless where no sense is present in the universe or in nature or genes.

Genes instilled survival skills and translatable in varying level of senses in plants, trees, animals and humans. Humans use these words to explain their actions and feelings.

You may appreciate Richard Dawkins saying that: ”We are going to die and that makes us the lucky one. Most people are never going to die becomes they never will be born. The potential people that could have been here in my place, but who in fact will never see the light of day outnumber the grains of the Sahara. And that make you the lucky one.”

I say: So celebrate life each minute of your life.

Feeling of being lucky can translate in being grateful, happy and positive, desiring to educate yourself and enjoy a positive life. At the end not greedy, avoiding unhuman suffering and graceful accepting a hopefully natural death or any black swan disaster event 

All living in nature wants to survive and reproduce which is also for humans a most daunting affair. Starting with human evolution it was: eat or being eating, to now trying to survive physical, mental, social and financial pressure and attacks. Being insecure of survival was and is part of our DNA as a strategy to be alert to any danger prompting freezing, fighting or fleeing all, this causing stress and suffering.

DNA and thus of all biological life itself has no purpose or reason, being only the product of a most wonderful chemical and complex reactions that also keeps people alive on a cellular level every day. Jack W. Szostak is one of those bright Nobel Prize winners for Physiology or Medicine (2009) who does wonderful research into the origin of life and cell biology.

Wonder and urge of life – conatus

A cynic conclusion could be, as with many insects that after the reproduction of the specie, the relevant reproducer is now superfluous and die like salmon fish or crueller with some spiders being eaten…. Here the thought of earth’s conflict is that the human species is a much too successful survivor. Like many other species when becoming too numerous without sufficient food they die-off. Earth’s catastrophic natural error is the human’s evolution overcoming natures natural limitation via technology. Cannibalisation of all Earth’s resources with human’s self-destruction within eyes side and average 50% human age reduction as a general age some centuries previous will be much appreciated, thank you.

Environment

Jacob Bronowski with his book The Ascent of Man is a valuable read as is Carl Sagan with his many books (also auditable available) “Pale Blue Dot” being so educational and beautiful passionate about the universe and planets and how much we have learned from space travel, science and research. He always supported space exploration.

While he confirms the incomprehensible universe dimensions and distances to possible alternative livable planets measured in lightyears ever to pass successfully even then with the most unlikely event of ever finding other intelligent life, space travel should be terminated in favor of earth science and recuperation.

Carl Sagan writes clearly in chapter 14 of his book already in 1994 “The pale blue planet” about threads of human life on this planet: “Three potential environmental catastrophes—all operating on a global scale—have recently been uncovered: ozone layer depletion, greenhouse warming, and nuclear winter. Since their discovery of CFC ozone damage in 1973 Rowland and Molina have been warning about that followed by thousands of others about this and other human miss behaviour.”

Another famous teacher is Carl Sagan with his many books (also auditable available) as “Pale Blue Dot” are so educational and so beautiful passionate about the universe and planets and how much we have learned from space travel, science and research. He always supported space exploration.

While he confirms the incomprehensible universe dimensions and distances to possible alternative livable planets measured in lightyears ever to pass successfully even then with the most unlikely event of ever finding other intelligent life, space travel should be terminated in favor of earth science and recuperation.

Especially since humans have been able to kill all their options nearly successfully for living on this planet very much longer. So, for skeptical wondering you, it is clear that over the past 3000 years and especially after the Industrial Revolution, the human race is close to finish making human and many other species living a disaster on this planet. Almost successfully irreversibly polluting and destroying the land, air and all water, including killing many other species 

The sublime craziest unbelievable stupid sample that matured in a governmental plan and relevant spending is for humans to live on the planet Mars. Why? The plan is to build an environment for humans on Mars to live with gravity, water, air, earth like natural nature, in other words, all that is here on planet earth.

Hundreds of millions of years of evolution have created humans well balanced with earths nature. Each cell of our body needs earths air composition, water and gravity and interaction with nature, our senses are very fined tuned to earths life to enjoy life all exactly that what is not on Mars…

So, instead of cleaning and repairing all human made environmental disasters and waste, the crazy impossible plan is to spend hard needed money for only a very few to go to Mars and leave all others with a more and more ruined planet earth
Skeptical Empiric - Uncertainty

Nassim Nicholas Taleb  (essayist, mathematical statistician, former option trader, risk analyst, and aphorist whose work concerns problems of randomness, probability, and uncertainty) clearly written books Antifragile, The Black Swan and Fooled by Randomness are detailing the many fallacies of man believes and convictions. Nassim is generously mixing researchers’ proven evidence with reference of great and famous mathematicians, philosophers, geology and many other science, all like himself Professor Doctor specialist experts scientists. Nassim Nassims mercilessly addresses the so called “empty suits”. A mayor topic in Nassims books is the unpredictability of events: “a Black Swan (and capitalize it) is an event with the following three attributes. First, it is an outlier, as it lies outside the realm of regular expectations, because nothing in the past can convincingly point to its possibility. Second, it carries an extreme impact (unlike the bird). Third, in spite of its outlier status, human nature makes us concoct explanations for its occurrence after the fact, making it explainable and predictable. I stop and summarize the triplet: rarity, extreme impact, and retrospective (though not prospective) predictability. A small number of Black Swans explain almost everything in our world, from the success of ideas and religions, to the dynamics of historical events, to elements of our own personal lives.”

Karl Popper (known for his rejection of the classical inductivist views on the scientific method in favour of empirical falsification) and Benoit Mandelbrot (mathematician and polymath with broad interests in the practical sciences, especially regarding what he labelled as "the art of roughness" of physical phenomena and "the uncontrolled element in life".) are both very sympathetic and social persons  and very wise man with unique considering random events. Daniel Kahneman Nobel Memorial Prize in Economic Sciences (2002), is another excellent author, psychologist and economist notable for his work on the psychology of judgment and decision-making, as well as behavioral economics, for which he was awarded the 2002 Nobel Memorial Prize in Economic Sciences. Amos Tversky was an Israeli cognitive and mathematical psychologist and a key figure in the discovery of systematic human cognitive bias and handling of risk.

Again, the universe, this planet and nature are understood to be the most super limitless violent and cruel and destructive, but these are “only” human emotional words in light of their own existence.

Baruch Spinoza’s book written between 1661 and 1675 “Ethics” chapter 3: On the Origin and Nature of the Emotions:  Nothing comes to pass in nature (and the universe), which can be set down to a flaw therein; for nature is always the same, and everywhere one and the same in her efficacy and power of action; that is, nature's laws and ordinances, whereby all things come to pass and change from one form to another, are everywhere and always the same; so that there should be one and the same method of understanding the nature of all things whatsoever, namely, through nature's universal laws and rules. Thus, the passions of hatred, anger, envy, and so on, considered in themselves, follow from this same necessity and efficacy of nature; they answer to certain definite causes, through which they are understood, and possess certain properties as worthy of being known as the properties of anything else, whereof the contemplation in itself affords us delight.

Human Emotions Trap

Animals caring for each other is an evolutionary instinct for survival (of the fittest). Human love is a word as a derivative of that as a strong warm personal emotion and carrying a social glue with deep affection. Perhaps love as gratitude for being alive.

Fear is also keeping you alive. It's a powerful, primitive instinct that your brain and body rely on to maintain your safety. Your amygdala, an area of your brain that helps you take in and respond to emotions sensing danger, immediately presses the panic button. Fear often caused by not knowing or having unanswerable questions for what you think you understand resulting in mental or even physical pain of sadness, disappointment and other human tendencies such as hatred, anger, envy, pity, jealousy, etc. These can disappear through an understanding of cause and meaning as being the explanation of human nature and being.

Animals caring for each other is an evolutionary instinct for survival (of the fittest). Human love is a word as a derivative of that strong warm personal emotion and carrying as social glue with deep affection. Perhaps love as gratitude for being alive.

Never give all the Heart by WILLIAM BUTLER YEATS

Never give all the heart, for love

Will hardly seem worth thinking of

To passionate women if it seem

Certain, and they never dream

That it fades out from kiss to kiss;

For everything that’s lovely is

But a brief, dreamy, kind delight.

O never give the heart outright,

For they, for all smooth lips can say,

Have given their hearts up to the play.

And who could play it well enough

If deaf and dumb and blind with love?

He that made this knows all the cost,

For he gave all his heart and lost.

Emotional fear is also keeping humans alive. It's a powerful, primitive instinct that your brain and body rely on to maintain your safety. Your amygdala, an area of your brain that helps you take in and respond to emotions sensing danger, immediately presses the panic button. Fear often caused by not knowing or having unanswerable questions for what you think you understand resulting in mental or even physical pain of sadness, disappointment and other human tendencies such as hatred, anger, envy, pity, jealousy, etc. These can disappear through an understanding of cause and meaning as being the explanation of human nature and being. Knowledge is all.

The creative grateful logical mind must be the master of all, even in spite of limited intelligence or other limited qualities. Mind over matter and emotions mostly well under control reason and logic. If reason and logic is lost or physical suffering is no longer acceptable then euthanasia can be considered 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxlNxehADKQ&list=RDLsTH02V9Pt4&index=29

Somewhere over the Rainbow

John Steinbeck - Reverend Jim Casy “Grapes of Wrath”:

 

“I was a preacher,” said the man seriously. “Reverend Jim Casy—was a Burning Busher. Used to howl out the name of Jesus to glory. And used to get an irrigation ditch so squirmin’ full of repented sinners half of ’em like to drownded. But not no more,” he sighed. “Just Jim Casy now. Ain’t got the call no more. Got a lot of sinful idears—but they seem kinda sensible.”

 

Joad said, “You’re bound to get idears if you go thinkin’ about stuff. Sure I remember you. You use ta give a good meetin’. I recollect one time you give a whole sermon walkin’ around on your hands, yellin’ your head off. Ma favored you more than anybody. An’ Granma says you was just lousy with the spirit.” Joad dug at his rolled coat and found the pocket and brought out his pint. The turtle moved a leg but he wrapped it up tightly. He unscrewed the cap and held out the bottle. “Have a little snort?”

 

And of course, John Steinbeck's “East Of Eden” Lee:

 

Lee’s hand shook as he filled the delicate cups. He drank his down in one gulp. “Don’t you see?” he cried. “The American Standard translation orders men to triumph over sin, and you can call sin ignorance. The King James translation makes a promise in ‘Thou shalt,’ meaning that men will surely triumph over sin. But the Hebrew word, the word timshel — ‘Thou mayest’ — that gives a choice. It might be the most important word in the world. That says the way is open. That throws it right back on a man. For if ‘Thou mayest’—it is also true that ‘Thou mayest not.’ Don’t you see?”

 

“Yes, I see. I do see. But you do not believe this is divine law. Why do you feel its importance?”

 

“Ah!” said Lee. “I’ve wanted to tell you this for a long time. I even anticipated your questions and I am well prepared. Any writing which has influenced the thinking and the lives of innumerable people is important. Now, there are many millions in their sects and churches who feel the order, ‘Do thou,’ and throw their weight into obedience. And there are millions more who feel predestination in ‘Thou shalt.’ Nothing they may do can interfere with what will be. But “Thou mayest’! Why, that makes a man great, that gives him stature with the gods, for in his weakness and his filth and his murder of his brother he has still the great choice. He can choose his course and fight it through and win.” Lee’s voice was a chant of triumph.

Adam said, “Do you believe that, Lee?”

“Yes, I do. Yes, I do. It is easy out of laziness, out of weakness, to throw oneself into the lap of deity, saying, ‘I couldn’t help it; the way was set.’ But think of the glory of the choice! That makes a man a man. A cat has no choice, a bee must make honey. There’s no godliness there. And do you know, those old gentlemen who were sliding gently down to death are too interested to die now?”

 

 

Beyoncé - Halo (Acoustic)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e5rKKL37kHQ

The Solitary Reaper by WILLIAM WORDSWORTH

Behold her, single in the field,

Yon solitary Highland Lass!

Reaping and singing by herself;

Stop here, or gently pass!

Alone she cuts and binds the grain,

And sings a melancholy strain;

O listen! for the Vale profound

Is overflowing with the sound.

No Nightingale did ever chant

More welcome notes to weary bands

Of travelers in some shady haunt,

Among Arabian sands:

A voice so thrilling ne'er was heard

In spring-time from the Cuckoo-bird,

Breaking the silence of the seas

Among the farthest Hebrides.

Will no one tell me what she sings?

Perhaps the plaintive numbers flow

For old, unhappy, far-off things,

And battles long ago:

Or is it some more humble lay,

Familiar matter of to-day?

Some natural sorrow, loss, or pain,

That has been, and may be again?

Whate'er the theme, the Maiden sang

As if her song could have no ending;

I saw her singing at her work,

And o'er the sickle bending;

I listened, motionless and still;

And, as I mounted up the hill,

The music in my heart I bore,

Long after it was heard no more.

Parent 

Personal experiences and failures have made me think a lot about parenthood and the minimum requirements that should preferably be legally imposed in advance on anyone who wants to foster children. Severe shortcomings in my parenthood would in current general accepted norms be overstated since it is globally accepted that that there are no minimum obligatory legal criteria for becoming a parent. I think that that is a great failure for societies and severe injustice to the child. This so considering current knowledge versus social requirements and harm caused. Social developments in relation to scientific technification with strong capitalistic motivation divides humans more and more from their natural origin and needs resulting in unacceptable conflictive human well-being. Essential here is the harm and failure for the good education and wellbeing of children. Harm in mine and overwhelmingly with most parents is failing in educational objectives or options to make a child discover its mental and physical possibilities.

Freedom to have children is of paramount importance but like all damage caused in society is to be prevented by education, laws, rules, and regulations. Not obeying like with any caused damage or failure to conform must be subject to relevant proportional conviction and punishment as is well accepted when driving through red light, fraud, steeling, violence[M1]  etc. Damage in any form to the child is to be the most critical focus point whereby the parents are accountable and liable until adulthood at 21 years.

Any newborn child must have a safe warm safe home where the child can fully develop, guided and educated into an independent adult person. Parents should mutually harmoniously present a declared goal, plan with resources. Both should be proved reliable, balanced and stable in society with an assured long term guaranteed financial basis without alcohol and smoking or other drugs.

Every child is very much limited or even locked in a life through parents’ accidental unprepared parentship being unqualified to raise their child. Just like their own parents’ heritage and circumstances they generally lacked knowledge about parentship and how to educate their children and become smart for any possible life option.

Most parents are ignorant, gullible, stubborn up to plain stupid and should be forced as a minimum to:

1.   Set and firmly agree short- and long-term measurable objectives with adequate guaranteed finances, all practically priorly established before conceiving a child.

2.   Secure a continuous safe, healthy, peaceful, caring home.

3.   Warrant to teach kids to think through problems and solve them, praise all efforts and their results and teach social skills.

4.   Secure that the child has proper nutrition, make them eat brain-friendly foods and ensure that your child has enough sleep.

5.   Warrant to nurture the child’s interests, musician, etc. involve your child in music.

6.   Secure to teach the child to exercise, the value of hard work, assign chores applicable to age, encourage, encouraging independence.

7.   Warrant to encourage curiosity and let them explore, let the child have unstructured play, stimulate with age-appropriate toys.

8.   Provide to enroll your child in preschool, do get your kids involved in academics early.

9.   Teach every child a second language.

Highly Effective People by Stephen Convey	http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Seven_Habits_of_Highly_Effective_People
Your Will Power	WillPower Is a Learned Skill
Universal Rights according the United Nations	Your rights http://www.un.org/en/rights/ Children rights http://www.un.org/cyberschoolbus/humanrights/resources/child.asp
Benedict de Spinoza	http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baruch_Spinoza
Bruce Lipton	http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tXqiJhC2cAM
Joe Dispenza	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drTKVflFXFQ&feature=youtube_gdata_player
k20038mhis18c1212847192033684720145338565919607893812Spinoza
John Stuwart Mill	On Liberty is still today the strong guideline for the democratic society of choice. http://archive.org/stream/onliberty34901gut/pg34901.txt
United Nations Declarations	http://www.un.org/en/rights/ http://www.un.org/cyberschoolbus/humanrights/resources/child.asp
Democracy	http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Democracy
Democracy is a form of government in which all eligible citizens participate equally—either directly or through elected representatives—in the proposal, development, and creation of laws. It encompasses social, economic and cultural conditions that enable the free and equal practice of political self-determination.
These principles are reflected in all eligible citizens being equal before the law and having equal access to legislative processes. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Democracy
Separation of powers http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Separation_of_powers The separation of powers, often imprecisely used interchangeably with the trias politica principle,[1] is a model for the governance of a state (or who controls the state). The model was first developed in Ancient Greece and Rome. Under this model, the state is divided into branches, each with separate and independent powers and areas of responsibility so that no branch has more power than the other branches. The normal division of branches is into a legislature, an executive, and a judiciary. Separation of church and state http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Separation_of_church_and_state
The separation of church and state is the distance in the relationship between organized religion and the nation state. Secularization  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secularization Secularization or secularisation (see spelling differences) is the transformation of a society from close identification with religious values and institutions toward nonreligious (or irreligious) values and secular institutions. The secularization thesis refers to the belief that as societies progress, particularly through modernization and rationalization, religion loses its authority in all aspects of social life and governance.[1] The term secularization is also used in the context of the lifting of the monastic restrictions from a member of the clergy.[2]
Thoughts and ideas in Buddhism and psychology http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddhism_and_psychology and Buddhism and science http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddhism_and_science  learn more about how secularization can direct Buddhism find its new strongest existence in today’s society.